Sunday, July 19, 2009

Re: [cancercured] Co-Dependency and Recovery from Cancer

 

Pat,
 
I love that you divorced your controlling husband, sold your house and moved to a smaller one and got a less complicated job. This is as important as anything in this battle. Dr. Loretta spoke about the mind-body connection a few weeks ago. I BELIEVE it.
 
Thanks for your support.
 
Nancy

--- On Sun, 7/19/09, Pat McDonald <pjmacblondie@yahoo.com> wrote:

Bravo Nancy--you need to stay away from negative (controlling) family or friends. I see mine only on family Christmas gatherings. You can't help it if you were born in a disfunctionaly family (I was too) when you grow up==you don't have to see them on a regular basis, if you don't want to.
I am blessed with many wonderful friends and we respect our choices, even if we do not agree--true friends. We laugh all the time at each other and ourselves--I don't know what I would do without their support. You need to love yourself and be surrounded by people who also love you. The hardest change I made was learning to say NO. I now choose what I want to do for someone--no more doing from guilt or whatever.

Pattie

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